Anyone trying to tell trans women that their quality of life while closeted was improved because they lived in a patriarchy (a patriarchy which actively tried to destroy them and remake them in its image), for instance, is making a sick and violent joke.
if your body positivity never mentions race and eurocentric beauty standards and physically disabled bodies and only endorces slightly curvy white women with thin faces who are able bodied….just…go away.
So how do you think you've changed since high school?
Well I became aware of oppressive power structures and how we are complicit in them and now seek to dismantle them.
I also think I got hotter.
He speaks disrespectfully about his former partners
He is disrespectful towards you
He does favors for you that you don’t want or puts on such a show of generosity that it makes you feel uncomfortable
He is controlling
He is possessive